Going throug PTSD Terror – Sounds Familiar?

I had a terrible dream last night. I awoke with the feeling of heaviness and loneliness. The dream seemed so real, and I couldn’t avoid thinking about it. It was connected with the time when I was sick so couldn’t let the fear even when woke up and realized that that was just a dream (the happening two days ago but yesterday my daughter had tantrums, and I couldn’t update new post).

rsz_access-933120_1920-1I make some coffee and have a look at social networks and then found two amazing articles. So the first I read James Prescot’s article – Afraid? Today Can Be Different (click on the title), and when I read all ha said it sounded so familiar to me. This is his description of being afraid: “Usually, my response is excess panic, emotion, stress, anxiety, fear, thinking a million steps ahead, thousands of ‘what ifs’, jumping all the steps straight to the result, pulse rate going into emergency mode, adrenaline pumping, rational thought gone, mind clouded, stress levels growing.”.

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The grass is greener in someone else’s yard / Trava je u tudjem dvoristu zelenija

The grass is greener in someone else’s yard (The pitfalls of advertising and media)

Do you sometimes feel like something is missing in your life? Do you feel as you need just one particular thing, and you might finally feel fulfilled and happy. Do you look to the others and you think they leave happily lives that are orderly and complete? Now I am going to tell you that “perfect life” does not exist and that it’s myth. But as I felt that way for many times I am writing this article now asI don’t want you to fall into the trap.

rsz_1mannequin-figure-968521_1280-1Turn on TV and you will be overwhelmed by advertisements.. you will get complete instructions that products you should buy, to look exactly the same as people from TV. You might see perfect haircuts and white teeth. The woman might be in beautiful dresses and high hills while taking children to the creche. The man goes to work in perfectly tidy shirts after arguing with the children during the breakfast. More alike they’ve got stains from food that children were throwing, but you can not see that on TV.

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Misconceptions on Motherhood (Loneliness and Loss) / Zablude o majcinstvu, usamljenost i gubitak

Misconceptions on Motherhood (Loneliness and Loss)

Do you feel isolated as a mother? Do you sometimes feel like a failure for no reason? Have you lost the loved ones? If you answered yes on any of these questions, this article might help you knowing that someone was ‘in your shoes’ and deeply and truly understand.

rsz_baby-927260_1280I am a mother of the one-year-old adorable little girl. I remember being pregnant. First of all, no one tells you that you do not feel high for nine months waiting for the baby. So that was the first misconception.

I remember that I thought that can’t be blissful state as people like to call pregnancy? I know many women who can not get pregnant would give everything for to be pregnant no matter what. So I might sound unthankful. But I am just telling you the truth.

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